Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Wacky Coeds In Men's Room

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probably shoulda gamed this situation just for fun, but I've been getting frustrated as girls just freeze up around me and are unable to say or do anything.

Anyway, I just finished my workout in the morning and go to the bathroom to wash up. I notice there are three college girl athletes standing in front of the men's room. There's another gym room just next door, so I thought they were just lounging around. I round the corner, and notice one of them has her sweatpants down just above her vag. She pulls her sweatpants up casually as I round the corner. I step by the girls to walk into the men's room.

"Ladies, guy comin!" the same girl announces. I step back. Several girls start giggling inside.
"Where's the girl's room?" another girl asks. I walk around the corner to point it out to them.
"OK, got it," she says sharply.
One girl comes out. "Sorry!" she says.
I step in, but ask if there is anyone else. She says there is.
Another girl comes out giggling, and also says sorry, giggling.

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The girls didn't seem to be willing to stop me from going in the men's room. But I stopped myself. I shoulda gamed them some, but instead didn't do much, since like I said, I'm frustrated from girls just not being able to do or say anything around me. Any thoughts?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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kody_starr said:
probably shoulda gamed this situation just for fun, but I've been getting frustrated as girls just freeze up around me and are unable to say or do anything.

Anyway, I just finished my workout in the morning and go to the bathroom to wash up. I notice there are three college girl athletes standing in front of the men's room. There's another gym room just next door, so I thought they were just lounging around. I round the corner, and notice one of them has her sweatpants down just above her vag. She pulls her sweatpants up casually as I round the corner. I step by the girls to walk into the men's room.

"Ladies, guy comin!" the same girl announces. I step back. Several girls start giggling inside.
"Where's the girl's room?" another girl asks. I walk around the corner to point it out to them.
"OK, got it," she says sharply.
One girl comes out. "Sorry!" she says.
I step in, but ask if there is anyone else. She says there is.
Another girl comes out giggling, and also says sorry, giggling.

Notes:
The girls didn't seem to be willing to stop me from going in the men's room. But I stopped myself. I shoulda gamed them some, but instead didn't do much, since like I said, I'm frustrated from girls just not being able to do or say anything around me. Any thoughts?
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It's not that they're not doing or saying anything around you, it's just you're not doing or saying anything around them. In this scenario, you played the typical guy who is unnerved by strange situation presented by giggling girls and calmly gets past it. You must be a Man if you want an interraction and you must boldly interact and INITIATE with the girls. Don't wait for them to try, in fact they already gave you lots of cues for things to say. ALWAYS initiate, don't leave it up to the woman.
 
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Yeah, now that I think about it, those girls were just begging to be put in their place....
 
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Why put them in their place? wouldn't you rather put them in your place? You could have flirted with them-you know " you ladies want to check out another mens room?"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeah, I probably shoulda played around with it. Maybe get a bj close in the bathroom? lol. I just thought the following things were odd:

1. five girls in or outside men's room.

2. one girl with her pants down all the way to the vag outside the door.

3. I go in and she doesn't stop me, just tells the girls inside!

I think they wanted an adventure and I was too chicken!
 
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WTF?

okay that's a damned peculiar situation. my gut reaction is "Uhh... is it even physically possible for you to use the urinals?"

I guess without experiencing it i can't say for certain, but more than likely i'd just raise an eyebrow, say something like above, then gauge their reaction.
 
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^These girls were definitely looking for an adventure of some kind, most likely in the prankster, and/or quickie sex vein. I know these are excuses, but, I felt outnumbered, like 5 or 6 girls to one, and I couldn't "tell" if they were protecting their girlfriends inside or if they were all in on a prank. Likely the latter. Silly me, I've been shy lately.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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