"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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W T F do you think to this drama??

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A h0 is going to be a h0, Ain't No Way Around It
 

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Looks like the BBC struck again.

But on a serious note, this happens all the time, it just oh so happens that the victim this time was the son of a multi-billionaire.
 

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Jay Electronica is far from a common thug. He is a very articulate man but you label him a thug why? Because he is black and raps?
 
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If there was ever a reason not to get married and not to have children this is it. Women and men are unable to be faithful and women and men are often drawn to people who are polar opposites of them. This rapper is at the opposite end of the spectrum from her husband, this probably what has attracted her to him, amongst other things.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I dont care how this sounds, but a woman of her position in society, should have a bit of respect, its like michelle obama being banged by the white house white plumber - these people have a duty as a person in society, and as a wife and mother. Bloody ***** this woman. Talk about wrong. She I hope will be completely humiliated by all this. I'm also glad the hubby slapped her. Should have given her a black eye too
 

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Jay electronica is not a thug but this seems like another woman looking for the exciting polar opposite to what she already has
 

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perseverance said:
If there was ever a reason not to get married and not to have children this is it. Women and men are unable to be faithful and women and men are often drawn to people who are polar opposites of them. This rapper is at the opposite end of the spectrum from her husband, this probably what has attracted her to him, amongst other things.
The husband didnt stray, he got weak and boring.

She has kids, she has money, she has friends, she has looks, she is relatively young, why the heck would she stay with a husband who works a bland 9 to 5 job and doesn't excite her? To be a housewife and cook for him? Not in todays modernized and westernized world. Yet the guy, instead of screaming and hitting her, should have went out and improved himself. Get a haircut, get a wardrobe, get a hobby, grow a pair, and have the girls flock to him. Let this be a lesson that money doesnt buy the girls.

Funny how she knows the media on her all time, and then gets upset that the details of the affair are leaked to the media. If you can't handle the heat....stay out of the kitchen!
 

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Why are you trying to make it the mans fault? Just because he may be boring doesn't give her the right to have an affair
 
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