"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
VSSM: Exercise 1.3
- Thread starter Vronski
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
If you want to train your tonality then using a tape recorder is a better choice. I even tested to record the words and then train the body language as I played the recordings. Works if you want to train just one part of the thing.
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oreo_renegade
Master Don Juan
like ill try to think like a woman, so i can see how to act more seductivly, and while in my "chick" state of mind, ill sit there and let myself get into a trance, adn then like i end up just standing here until i snap out of it, and then i lose the seductive personality, and then try to gte it back and its like a continuing cycle!!
blah!
also ill like start laffing, cuz ill sit there and then this thought come into my head like "what are u doing? tryin to b like james bond? hahahah"
and then ill burst out laffing lol
a fun experience altogether tho.
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"... I'm tensed a bit,
and tempted,
when I see the sins,
my friends commit,
I'm infinite... "-EMINEM