"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
VSSM: Exercise 1.3
- Thread starter Vronski
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If you want to train your tonality then using a tape recorder is a better choice. I even tested to record the words and then train the body language as I played the recordings. Works if you want to train just one part of the thing.
--- Awkward
oreo_renegade
Master Don Juan
like ill try to think like a woman, so i can see how to act more seductivly, and while in my "chick" state of mind, ill sit there and let myself get into a trance, adn then like i end up just standing here until i snap out of it, and then i lose the seductive personality, and then try to gte it back and its like a continuing cycle!!
blah!
also ill like start laffing, cuz ill sit there and then this thought come into my head like "what are u doing? tryin to b like james bond? hahahah"
and then ill burst out laffing lol
a fun experience altogether tho.
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"... I'm tensed a bit,
and tempted,
when I see the sins,
my friends commit,
I'm infinite... "-EMINEM