"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
VSSM: Exercise 1.3
- Thread starter Vronski
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
If you want to train your tonality then using a tape recorder is a better choice. I even tested to record the words and then train the body language as I played the recordings. Works if you want to train just one part of the thing.
--- Awkward
oreo_renegade
Master Don Juan
like ill try to think like a woman, so i can see how to act more seductivly, and while in my "chick" state of mind, ill sit there and let myself get into a trance, adn then like i end up just standing here until i snap out of it, and then i lose the seductive personality, and then try to gte it back and its like a continuing cycle!!
blah!
also ill like start laffing, cuz ill sit there and then this thought come into my head like "what are u doing? tryin to b like james bond? hahahah"
and then ill burst out laffing lol
a fun experience altogether tho.
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"... I'm tensed a bit,
and tempted,
when I see the sins,
my friends commit,
I'm infinite... "-EMINEM