"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
VSSM: Exercise 1.3
- Thread starter Vronski
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
If you want to train your tonality then using a tape recorder is a better choice. I even tested to record the words and then train the body language as I played the recordings. Works if you want to train just one part of the thing.
--- Awkward
oreo_renegade
Master Don Juan
like ill try to think like a woman, so i can see how to act more seductivly, and while in my "chick" state of mind, ill sit there and let myself get into a trance, adn then like i end up just standing here until i snap out of it, and then i lose the seductive personality, and then try to gte it back and its like a continuing cycle!!
blah!
also ill like start laffing, cuz ill sit there and then this thought come into my head like "what are u doing? tryin to b like james bond? hahahah"
and then ill burst out laffing lol
a fun experience altogether tho.
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"... I'm tensed a bit,
and tempted,
when I see the sins,
my friends commit,
I'm infinite... "-EMINEM