"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Unless I'm missing something here, why do I notice females voting for a particular man to be prime minister/president because of how good looking/sexy they are? And why? I don't see the logic. If there are rare instances with the genders reversed, then please say.

Not that its happened recently, but I have noticed this in the past.
I might be in the wrong section to post this, but at any rate, does this behaviour say something about the dating world too?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sambwoy said:
Unless I'm missing something here, why do I notice females voting for a particular man to be prime minister/president because of how good looking/sexy they are?
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Because that's what they do. Look at before women got the right to vote. We voted in some ugly SOBs. And we made some pretty good choices, too- Thomas Jefferson, Abe Lincoln, Teddy Roosevelt.

Who was the first woman-elected president? Warren Harding, generally regarded to be the most corrupt president ever.

Look at why JFK won. If it were up to men Nixon would have won. It was because JFK looked more handsome on TV and Nixon looked "unshaven."
 
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Yes, absolutely. Bill Clinton was also a handsome candidate when he ran too.

I care about substance. I don't care if the next president is a 3 in looks.

As I said many times before, women consider looks first, and then if the guy is good looking, they put a positive spin on his other traits.
 
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