"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Voting in elections

sambwoy

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Unless I'm missing something here, why do I notice females voting for a particular man to be prime minister/president because of how good looking/sexy they are? And why? I don't see the logic. If there are rare instances with the genders reversed, then please say.

Not that its happened recently, but I have noticed this in the past.
I might be in the wrong section to post this, but at any rate, does this behaviour say something about the dating world too?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Darth

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sambwoy said:
Unless I'm missing something here, why do I notice females voting for a particular man to be prime minister/president because of how good looking/sexy they are?
Because that's what they do. Look at before women got the right to vote. We voted in some ugly SOBs. And we made some pretty good choices, too- Thomas Jefferson, Abe Lincoln, Teddy Roosevelt.

Who was the first woman-elected president? Warren Harding, generally regarded to be the most corrupt president ever.

Look at why JFK won. If it were up to men Nixon would have won. It was because JFK looked more handsome on TV and Nixon looked "unshaven."
 

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Yes, absolutely. Bill Clinton was also a handsome candidate when he ran too.

I care about substance. I don't care if the next president is a 3 in looks.

As I said many times before, women consider looks first, and then if the guy is good looking, they put a positive spin on his other traits.
 
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