"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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the pain

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hi theire listen guys my first girl and the girl i love dumped me ...........now i spent 1year and a half with her and im in love with her and she is with me in the college so i see her every week

the thing is i want to get even with her ....and i have some papers about sex and pics...... so do u think i should get even like use her to suck my **** and treat her like ****.....or what

thanks for ur help
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Talk to more girls man you in college!


Trying to get even with her just makes you look like a weak insecure psycho drama queen.
 

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did you just ask us if you should blackmail her into having sex with you?
 

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The Pain,

I am greatly appreciative of the fact that you live in Lebanon. If you were an American, I would think even lower (collectively) of my fellow countrymen. Even WWu, loser AFC that he is, is no competition for you. Are you serious when you say that you're thinking of blackmailing your ex, trying to have her give you head? Though I'm not certain as to the specifics, I can give you a guarantee that what you're proposing is illegal in Lebanon. Not to mention the possibility that her current boyfriend will find out and either beat you down, have or hire someone else to, or outright kill you.

You are a sad, desperate boy holding on to the one person that doesn't want you anymore, from the looks of it. It would also appear as though she has good reason to not want you to be a part of her life anymore - look at yourself. Absolutely pathetic.

You say that you want to "get even" with her. What is there that you feel the need to get even for? Her moving on with her life, and deciding that it would be better off with you not in it? Perhaps you should take follow her lead and move on with your own self, instead of dwelling in the past and masturbating to pictures of what you used to have.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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