"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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hi theire listen guys my first girl and the girl i love dumped me ...........now i spent 1year and a half with her and im in love with her and she is with me in the college so i see her every week

the thing is i want to get even with her ....and i have some papers about sex and pics...... so do u think i should get even like use her to suck my **** and treat her like ****.....or what

thanks for ur help
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Talk to more girls man you in college!


Trying to get even with her just makes you look like a weak insecure psycho drama queen.
 

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did you just ask us if you should blackmail her into having sex with you?
 

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The Pain,

I am greatly appreciative of the fact that you live in Lebanon. If you were an American, I would think even lower (collectively) of my fellow countrymen. Even WWu, loser AFC that he is, is no competition for you. Are you serious when you say that you're thinking of blackmailing your ex, trying to have her give you head? Though I'm not certain as to the specifics, I can give you a guarantee that what you're proposing is illegal in Lebanon. Not to mention the possibility that her current boyfriend will find out and either beat you down, have or hire someone else to, or outright kill you.

You are a sad, desperate boy holding on to the one person that doesn't want you anymore, from the looks of it. It would also appear as though she has good reason to not want you to be a part of her life anymore - look at yourself. Absolutely pathetic.

You say that you want to "get even" with her. What is there that you feel the need to get even for? Her moving on with her life, and deciding that it would be better off with you not in it? Perhaps you should take follow her lead and move on with your own self, instead of dwelling in the past and masturbating to pictures of what you used to have.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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