"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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voice tone?

Junaid

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i read that i shud have a masculine deep voice tone.. but i dont really have it

if i try to get a deep voice it sounds a lil weird and im wondering will i eventually sound natural if i prac the deep voice?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WC2

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My voice totally changed from sophmore to junior year in high school. Don't sweat it, everyone grows at their own rate and there is nothing you can do about it. For now, talking confidently is the best thing you can do.
 

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aight thanks
 

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Dont try to speak in a deep voice,just try to speak quietly,slowly and clearly.The effect is the same :)
 

Junaid

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speaking poetry... il try that out

i am also going to take a public speaking thing at school to sort of get rid of as much anxiety when talking as possible.
i figure talking to 50 strangers all the time will make talking to 1 person alot easier :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Distant Light

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You don't need a deep voice I find that a high energy voice is better and so longs your speaking clearly than your good. At times I will use my deep voice because naturally I have a deep voice but then other times I will purposely sound like a flaming fag.

Have fun with your voice play around with it.
 
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