"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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voice tone?

Junaid

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i read that i shud have a masculine deep voice tone.. but i dont really have it

if i try to get a deep voice it sounds a lil weird and im wondering will i eventually sound natural if i prac the deep voice?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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WC2

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My voice totally changed from sophmore to junior year in high school. Don't sweat it, everyone grows at their own rate and there is nothing you can do about it. For now, talking confidently is the best thing you can do.
 

Junaid

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aight thanks
 

ascalon

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Dont try to speak in a deep voice,just try to speak quietly,slowly and clearly.The effect is the same :)
 

Junaid

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speaking poetry... il try that out

i am also going to take a public speaking thing at school to sort of get rid of as much anxiety when talking as possible.
i figure talking to 50 strangers all the time will make talking to 1 person alot easier :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Distant Light

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You don't need a deep voice I find that a high energy voice is better and so longs your speaking clearly than your good. At times I will use my deep voice because naturally I have a deep voice but then other times I will purposely sound like a flaming fag.

Have fun with your voice play around with it.
 
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