"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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voice tone?

Junaid

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i read that i shud have a masculine deep voice tone.. but i dont really have it

if i try to get a deep voice it sounds a lil weird and im wondering will i eventually sound natural if i prac the deep voice?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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WC2

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My voice totally changed from sophmore to junior year in high school. Don't sweat it, everyone grows at their own rate and there is nothing you can do about it. For now, talking confidently is the best thing you can do.
 

Junaid

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aight thanks
 

ascalon

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Dont try to speak in a deep voice,just try to speak quietly,slowly and clearly.The effect is the same :)
 

Junaid

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speaking poetry... il try that out

i am also going to take a public speaking thing at school to sort of get rid of as much anxiety when talking as possible.
i figure talking to 50 strangers all the time will make talking to 1 person alot easier :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Distant Light

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You don't need a deep voice I find that a high energy voice is better and so longs your speaking clearly than your good. At times I will use my deep voice because naturally I have a deep voice but then other times I will purposely sound like a flaming fag.

Have fun with your voice play around with it.
 
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