"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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voice tone?

Junaid

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i read that i shud have a masculine deep voice tone.. but i dont really have it

if i try to get a deep voice it sounds a lil weird and im wondering will i eventually sound natural if i prac the deep voice?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WC2

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My voice totally changed from sophmore to junior year in high school. Don't sweat it, everyone grows at their own rate and there is nothing you can do about it. For now, talking confidently is the best thing you can do.
 

Junaid

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aight thanks
 

ascalon

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Dont try to speak in a deep voice,just try to speak quietly,slowly and clearly.The effect is the same :)
 

Junaid

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speaking poetry... il try that out

i am also going to take a public speaking thing at school to sort of get rid of as much anxiety when talking as possible.
i figure talking to 50 strangers all the time will make talking to 1 person alot easier :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Distant Light

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You don't need a deep voice I find that a high energy voice is better and so longs your speaking clearly than your good. At times I will use my deep voice because naturally I have a deep voice but then other times I will purposely sound like a flaming fag.

Have fun with your voice play around with it.
 
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