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She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

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Has anyone ever noticed that your voice pitch seems to change along with your mood and temperment? I hit a low patch recently, my confidence was down ... and I was amused to notice my voice seemed slightly higher in pitch, and I couldn't really seem to change it.


Anyone else ever experience this?
 

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When you are nervous or scared the vocal cords in your throat subconsciously tighten, thus giving you a higher pitched tone. Its a sign of a lack of mental poise when you talk in a higher than usual pitch on a regular basis.
You need to calm down and relax, annunciate your words.

If your ever feeling down on confidence levels you need to:

  • Carry yourself in a confident manor. Walk with your head high, shoulders back and relax.
  • Do a visual meditationi. Visualize positive energy going in and negative energy going out. This is something to practice every morning before you begin your day. Excersise helps too.
  • To relax, pretend theres a potato chip between your teeth but you don't want to break it. This will relax the rest of the muscles in your body and get rid of tenseness.
  • Enjoy life. Keep in mind tommorow is never promised, carpe diem.. sieze the day
-Cola
 

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I've heard some say that women respond to deep, resonant voices. This makes sense, but I've never tried it out myself. My voice will go pretty deep when I want it to, but I prefer to not focus on that and just talk naturally. Has anyone experimented with using the pitch of their voice to attract women?

I've also seen a study that said that when a woman is ovulating, the pitch of her voice goes higher, which makes her more attractive to men. So if you use this in reverse, a deeper voice should attract women. I remember seeing Trace Atkins on some talk show one time, and the female host mentioned something about his voice making her hot (he is a country singer with a very deep voice if you've never heard of him).
 
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