"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BenPW-DJNewbie

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Some of my friends at the school i go to, said that I talk too much and I sound gay. What can i do about this? Also, how can I have an aura of calmness and cool?

Please answer both questions.
Thankyou, Ben
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Start by not worrying as much of what ppl think of you lol
 

Quiksilver

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I had a relatively unpleasant and nasal voice my whole life until a year and a half ago. When I found this site and assessed my weaknesses, and focused on voice tonality, etc.

I used a tape recorder and learned to use my voice box properly. A lot of people with "gay" voices don't use their full voice box because their chest/abdomen is tight.

Use a voice recorder and do your best. Learn to accept yourself is very important, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't make an effort to put your best foot forward, it just means you have to acknowledge that you are doing your best.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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How did you learn how to use your voice box properly?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BenPW-DJNewbie

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Lol @ Exclusive. I knew I'd get some ****y reply.
@ Quicksilver. I'll try this. Cheers :up:
 

SinJester

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Aparantly I change my voice around people I'm not comfortable with... I don't even notice. wtf
 
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