"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BenPW-DJNewbie

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Some of my friends at the school i go to, said that I talk too much and I sound gay. What can i do about this? Also, how can I have an aura of calmness and cool?

Please answer both questions.
Thankyou, Ben
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Start by not worrying as much of what ppl think of you lol
 

Quiksilver

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I had a relatively unpleasant and nasal voice my whole life until a year and a half ago. When I found this site and assessed my weaknesses, and focused on voice tonality, etc.

I used a tape recorder and learned to use my voice box properly. A lot of people with "gay" voices don't use their full voice box because their chest/abdomen is tight.

Use a voice recorder and do your best. Learn to accept yourself is very important, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't make an effort to put your best foot forward, it just means you have to acknowledge that you are doing your best.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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How did you learn how to use your voice box properly?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Lol @ Exclusive. I knew I'd get some ****y reply.
@ Quicksilver. I'll try this. Cheers :up:
 

SinJester

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Aparantly I change my voice around people I'm not comfortable with... I don't even notice. wtf
 
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