"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BenPW-DJNewbie

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Some of my friends at the school i go to, said that I talk too much and I sound gay. What can i do about this? Also, how can I have an aura of calmness and cool?

Please answer both questions.
Thankyou, Ben
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Start by not worrying as much of what ppl think of you lol
 

Quiksilver

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I had a relatively unpleasant and nasal voice my whole life until a year and a half ago. When I found this site and assessed my weaknesses, and focused on voice tonality, etc.

I used a tape recorder and learned to use my voice box properly. A lot of people with "gay" voices don't use their full voice box because their chest/abdomen is tight.

Use a voice recorder and do your best. Learn to accept yourself is very important, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't make an effort to put your best foot forward, it just means you have to acknowledge that you are doing your best.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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How did you learn how to use your voice box properly?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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BenPW-DJNewbie

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Lol @ Exclusive. I knew I'd get some ****y reply.
@ Quicksilver. I'll try this. Cheers :up:
 

SinJester

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Aparantly I change my voice around people I'm not comfortable with... I don't even notice. wtf
 
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