"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Vincent is pretty much a loser

YAMON dj

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hey Vincent, try to get a life and stop treating ppl like sh*t k? or is that too hard....
cant wait to hear a response to this one. I think i'll write down the insults this time, they're quite good. Either from him or any other person who feels like sticking up for him cause hes a "senior" or w.e dj.. lol so funny
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SinisaD

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Hey JC i have a question. Did you apply for the moderator job??? I think i read it somewhere on the site that SoSuave is looking for more moderators 1 or 2 I think.

btw... cute chick in ur link :).... "i love JC" good stuff :-D!
 

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
They don't want me as a mod. I'd close and delete too many threads so this place gets better.


JC
You could call it the Don Juan Inquisition.
 

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
They don't want me as a mod. I'd close and delete too many threads so this place gets better.


JC
It wont hurt em to give u a shot.. all it will cost is a few hundred usless threads deleted or closed... rite???
 

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Originally posted by YAMON dj
hey Vincent, try to get a life and stop treating ppl like sh*t k? or is that too hard....
cant wait to hear a response to this one. I think i'll write down the insults this time, they're quite good. Either from him or any other person who feels like sticking up for him cause hes a "senior" or w.e dj.. lol so funny
Youre gay, go away you prepubescent child you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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