"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Vietnamese in northern europe.

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I just recently moved here, a forced move, a month ago and man I don't know whetever it is my excuses or no but it is much harder than in my homecountry.

I am currently living in Finland but I will be traveling back and forth to Sweden. I have heard the cruises are a pretty good place.

Guys, give me some tips and infos about these 'cold' countries. These people are much more introverted and not so open. And this thought that I am an Asian, they don't accept me is constantly nagging me. Is it the case? I have not had enough time to hit the bars and aprreoaches and find out for myself because of settling here is still in process: looking for school, not social circle yet, no friends no ****, dunno language, dunno culture, dunno what thy wanna hear to get ther vag tingles. This culture is completely different compared to vietnameses. Yeah I have only heard, but the popular is probably that me, dunno whetever I am middle Asian or the small ones chineses categorized. But they pretty much does not even mention Vietnamese people as cons or pros in Europe as far as dating is concerned, englightened me.

Man, I need some quick, cool, great small infos big tips and so.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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well I live in the Netherlands. In my experience the people from Nordic countries like Sweden and Denmark are very friendly.

I don't know in what kind of place your living, but I can imagine that if you're moving into a small town it might be hard to integrate, as the villagers there are already a close-knit group.

If you're moving to a city then it should be easier for you to find a place where you are comfortable.

Just make sure you do take care of your responsibilities and work on learning the language so you can get to know the people and go to school.

I find swedish girls very pleasant and welcoming as well btw.

Just don't worry. Respect yourself and don't worry about others' opinions. Do a lot of observing the first few months, ask what the customs are, etc.

I love swedish chicks, and the dudes from there are also pretty friendly. I can make friends with them easily as a german/dutchman.

Just watch and learn, but remember to respect yourself, don't let anyone fvck with you.

Make sure you don't let anyone get the idea that you are a white-knight/pvssy.
 
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Let the self-serving stereotyping and sour grapes begin. "All the Anglo and Nordic b!tches are frigid and the men are racist." Interspersed with bragging. "All the Anglo and Nordic b!tches are slvts and the men are weak, unlike me."


Edit: not necessarily talking about you, Thomson. Btw, you have heard about "the Asian Pickup Artist", JT Tran, I presume? Came to think of him, also Vietnamese I guess from the name.

"IRT"? All the abbreviations here are impossible to keep up with for the average forum viewer.
 
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Wolfgang D said:
"IRT"? All the abbreviations here are impossible to keep up with for the average forum viewer.
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IRT = Indian Race Troll. You just fell for the trap!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What The fvck with this troll ****? I'm seriously looking for some discussion and help and the motherfvckers keep bringing this troll here? Are you all fvucking idiots?
 
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What The fvck with this troll ****? I'm seriously looking for some discussion and help and the motherfvckers keep bringing this troll here? Are you all fvucking idiots?
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Whoa, easy there, cupcake. Please don't napalm us, mister.
Here are a few tips for you:

Thomson said:
These people are much more introverted and not so open. And this thought that I am an Asian, they don't accept me is constantly nagging me
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Tip 1: check your attitude and be more friendly yourself, but first...

Thomson said:
dunno language, dunno culture
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Tip 2: learn the language and sink into the culture.

Thomson said:
dunno what thy wanna hear to get ther vag tingles
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become a viking.
 
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iamnobody said:
Whoa, easy there, cupcake. Please don't napalm us, mister.
Here are a few tips for you:


Tip 1: check your attitude and be more friendly yourself, but first...


Tip 2: learn the language and sink into the culture.


become a viking.
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Sometimes you get pssed.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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