"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Vietnamese in northern europe.

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I just recently moved here, a forced move, a month ago and man I don't know whetever it is my excuses or no but it is much harder than in my homecountry.

I am currently living in Finland but I will be traveling back and forth to Sweden. I have heard the cruises are a pretty good place.

Guys, give me some tips and infos about these 'cold' countries. These people are much more introverted and not so open. And this thought that I am an Asian, they don't accept me is constantly nagging me. Is it the case? I have not had enough time to hit the bars and aprreoaches and find out for myself because of settling here is still in process: looking for school, not social circle yet, no friends no ****, dunno language, dunno culture, dunno what thy wanna hear to get ther vag tingles. This culture is completely different compared to vietnameses. Yeah I have only heard, but the popular is probably that me, dunno whetever I am middle Asian or the small ones chineses categorized. But they pretty much does not even mention Vietnamese people as cons or pros in Europe as far as dating is concerned, englightened me.

Man, I need some quick, cool, great small infos big tips and so.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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well I live in the Netherlands. In my experience the people from Nordic countries like Sweden and Denmark are very friendly.

I don't know in what kind of place your living, but I can imagine that if you're moving into a small town it might be hard to integrate, as the villagers there are already a close-knit group.

If you're moving to a city then it should be easier for you to find a place where you are comfortable.

Just make sure you do take care of your responsibilities and work on learning the language so you can get to know the people and go to school.

I find swedish girls very pleasant and welcoming as well btw.

Just don't worry. Respect yourself and don't worry about others' opinions. Do a lot of observing the first few months, ask what the customs are, etc.

I love swedish chicks, and the dudes from there are also pretty friendly. I can make friends with them easily as a german/dutchman.

Just watch and learn, but remember to respect yourself, don't let anyone fvck with you.

Make sure you don't let anyone get the idea that you are a white-knight/pvssy.
 
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Let the self-serving stereotyping and sour grapes begin. "All the Anglo and Nordic b!tches are frigid and the men are racist." Interspersed with bragging. "All the Anglo and Nordic b!tches are slvts and the men are weak, unlike me."


Edit: not necessarily talking about you, Thomson. Btw, you have heard about "the Asian Pickup Artist", JT Tran, I presume? Came to think of him, also Vietnamese I guess from the name.

"IRT"? All the abbreviations here are impossible to keep up with for the average forum viewer.
 
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Wolfgang D said:
"IRT"? All the abbreviations here are impossible to keep up with for the average forum viewer.
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IRT = Indian Race Troll. You just fell for the trap!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What The fvck with this troll ****? I'm seriously looking for some discussion and help and the motherfvckers keep bringing this troll here? Are you all fvucking idiots?
 
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What The fvck with this troll ****? I'm seriously looking for some discussion and help and the motherfvckers keep bringing this troll here? Are you all fvucking idiots?
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Whoa, easy there, cupcake. Please don't napalm us, mister.
Here are a few tips for you:

Thomson said:
These people are much more introverted and not so open. And this thought that I am an Asian, they don't accept me is constantly nagging me
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Tip 1: check your attitude and be more friendly yourself, but first...

Thomson said:
dunno language, dunno culture
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Tip 2: learn the language and sink into the culture.

Thomson said:
dunno what thy wanna hear to get ther vag tingles
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become a viking.
 
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iamnobody said:
Whoa, easy there, cupcake. Please don't napalm us, mister.
Here are a few tips for you:


Tip 1: check your attitude and be more friendly yourself, but first...


Tip 2: learn the language and sink into the culture.


become a viking.
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Sometimes you get pssed.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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