"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Vids demonstrating PUA game?
- Thread starter Vekhematu
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nuceTz9gZRQ
The problem with PUAs is that they're all about trying to look good to their peers and their reputation on forums like this, so a lot of what they say is based on lies or exaggerations and a lot of their videos are staged.
You would do much better to go to a club or bar and look out for some naturals at work.
I used to spend a lot of time observing interactions when I was out. The real naturals didn't run any techniques or do any of the things you see/read PUAs doing. They just make lighthearted conversation and gauge if the girl is responding. Most of the time, once the natural breaks the ice, the girl will make it easy for him and it becomes a mutual connection rather than a pick up.
One guy I remember pretty well had these two gorgeous girls fighting for his attention and he just stood there and barely said a word. He just listened and nodded while they were the ones trying to qualify themselves. This is the approach I take with women now and it's what has always worked best for me.
The problem with PUAs is that they're all about trying to look good to their peers and their reputation on forums like this, so a lot of what they say is based on lies or exaggerations and a lot of their videos are staged.
You would do much better to go to a club or bar and look out for some naturals at work.
I used to spend a lot of time observing interactions when I was out. The real naturals didn't run any techniques or do any of the things you see/read PUAs doing. They just make lighthearted conversation and gauge if the girl is responding. Most of the time, once the natural breaks the ice, the girl will make it easy for him and it becomes a mutual connection rather than a pick up.
One guy I remember pretty well had these two gorgeous girls fighting for his attention and he just stood there and barely said a word. He just listened and nodded while they were the ones trying to qualify themselves. This is the approach I take with women now and it's what has always worked best for me.
at one stage in my life one might have said i was a 'natural'.
i never needed to approach women in my teens/20's or early 30's.
but that all changed in my late 30's.
i'm 40 now and i still don't have a clue.
what i do know is there isn't a hard and fast rule.
as humans we embody limitless possibilities.
but the advice given here is generally sound. regardless of what that possibility may be.
just make sure you don't take advice from skinnyguy or Solomon. lol.
i never needed to approach women in my teens/20's or early 30's.
but that all changed in my late 30's.
i'm 40 now and i still don't have a clue.
what i do know is there isn't a hard and fast rule.
as humans we embody limitless possibilities.
but the advice given here is generally sound. regardless of what that possibility may be.
just make sure you don't take advice from skinnyguy or Solomon. lol.