"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Vids demonstrating PUA game?
- Thread starter Vekhematu
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nuceTz9gZRQ
The problem with PUAs is that they're all about trying to look good to their peers and their reputation on forums like this, so a lot of what they say is based on lies or exaggerations and a lot of their videos are staged.
You would do much better to go to a club or bar and look out for some naturals at work.
I used to spend a lot of time observing interactions when I was out. The real naturals didn't run any techniques or do any of the things you see/read PUAs doing. They just make lighthearted conversation and gauge if the girl is responding. Most of the time, once the natural breaks the ice, the girl will make it easy for him and it becomes a mutual connection rather than a pick up.
One guy I remember pretty well had these two gorgeous girls fighting for his attention and he just stood there and barely said a word. He just listened and nodded while they were the ones trying to qualify themselves. This is the approach I take with women now and it's what has always worked best for me.
The problem with PUAs is that they're all about trying to look good to their peers and their reputation on forums like this, so a lot of what they say is based on lies or exaggerations and a lot of their videos are staged.
You would do much better to go to a club or bar and look out for some naturals at work.
I used to spend a lot of time observing interactions when I was out. The real naturals didn't run any techniques or do any of the things you see/read PUAs doing. They just make lighthearted conversation and gauge if the girl is responding. Most of the time, once the natural breaks the ice, the girl will make it easy for him and it becomes a mutual connection rather than a pick up.
One guy I remember pretty well had these two gorgeous girls fighting for his attention and he just stood there and barely said a word. He just listened and nodded while they were the ones trying to qualify themselves. This is the approach I take with women now and it's what has always worked best for me.
at one stage in my life one might have said i was a 'natural'.
i never needed to approach women in my teens/20's or early 30's.
but that all changed in my late 30's.
i'm 40 now and i still don't have a clue.
what i do know is there isn't a hard and fast rule.
as humans we embody limitless possibilities.
but the advice given here is generally sound. regardless of what that possibility may be.
just make sure you don't take advice from skinnyguy or Solomon. lol.
i never needed to approach women in my teens/20's or early 30's.
but that all changed in my late 30's.
i'm 40 now and i still don't have a clue.
what i do know is there isn't a hard and fast rule.
as humans we embody limitless possibilities.
but the advice given here is generally sound. regardless of what that possibility may be.
just make sure you don't take advice from skinnyguy or Solomon. lol.