"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Vids demonstrating PUA game?
- Thread starter Vekhematu
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nuceTz9gZRQ
The problem with PUAs is that they're all about trying to look good to their peers and their reputation on forums like this, so a lot of what they say is based on lies or exaggerations and a lot of their videos are staged.
You would do much better to go to a club or bar and look out for some naturals at work.
I used to spend a lot of time observing interactions when I was out. The real naturals didn't run any techniques or do any of the things you see/read PUAs doing. They just make lighthearted conversation and gauge if the girl is responding. Most of the time, once the natural breaks the ice, the girl will make it easy for him and it becomes a mutual connection rather than a pick up.
One guy I remember pretty well had these two gorgeous girls fighting for his attention and he just stood there and barely said a word. He just listened and nodded while they were the ones trying to qualify themselves. This is the approach I take with women now and it's what has always worked best for me.
The problem with PUAs is that they're all about trying to look good to their peers and their reputation on forums like this, so a lot of what they say is based on lies or exaggerations and a lot of their videos are staged.
You would do much better to go to a club or bar and look out for some naturals at work.
I used to spend a lot of time observing interactions when I was out. The real naturals didn't run any techniques or do any of the things you see/read PUAs doing. They just make lighthearted conversation and gauge if the girl is responding. Most of the time, once the natural breaks the ice, the girl will make it easy for him and it becomes a mutual connection rather than a pick up.
One guy I remember pretty well had these two gorgeous girls fighting for his attention and he just stood there and barely said a word. He just listened and nodded while they were the ones trying to qualify themselves. This is the approach I take with women now and it's what has always worked best for me.
at one stage in my life one might have said i was a 'natural'.
i never needed to approach women in my teens/20's or early 30's.
but that all changed in my late 30's.
i'm 40 now and i still don't have a clue.
what i do know is there isn't a hard and fast rule.
as humans we embody limitless possibilities.
but the advice given here is generally sound. regardless of what that possibility may be.
just make sure you don't take advice from skinnyguy or Solomon. lol.
i never needed to approach women in my teens/20's or early 30's.
but that all changed in my late 30's.
i'm 40 now and i still don't have a clue.
what i do know is there isn't a hard and fast rule.
as humans we embody limitless possibilities.
but the advice given here is generally sound. regardless of what that possibility may be.
just make sure you don't take advice from skinnyguy or Solomon. lol.