"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Vids demonstrating PUA game?
- Thread starter Vekhematu
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nuceTz9gZRQ
The problem with PUAs is that they're all about trying to look good to their peers and their reputation on forums like this, so a lot of what they say is based on lies or exaggerations and a lot of their videos are staged.
You would do much better to go to a club or bar and look out for some naturals at work.
I used to spend a lot of time observing interactions when I was out. The real naturals didn't run any techniques or do any of the things you see/read PUAs doing. They just make lighthearted conversation and gauge if the girl is responding. Most of the time, once the natural breaks the ice, the girl will make it easy for him and it becomes a mutual connection rather than a pick up.
One guy I remember pretty well had these two gorgeous girls fighting for his attention and he just stood there and barely said a word. He just listened and nodded while they were the ones trying to qualify themselves. This is the approach I take with women now and it's what has always worked best for me.
The problem with PUAs is that they're all about trying to look good to their peers and their reputation on forums like this, so a lot of what they say is based on lies or exaggerations and a lot of their videos are staged.
You would do much better to go to a club or bar and look out for some naturals at work.
I used to spend a lot of time observing interactions when I was out. The real naturals didn't run any techniques or do any of the things you see/read PUAs doing. They just make lighthearted conversation and gauge if the girl is responding. Most of the time, once the natural breaks the ice, the girl will make it easy for him and it becomes a mutual connection rather than a pick up.
One guy I remember pretty well had these two gorgeous girls fighting for his attention and he just stood there and barely said a word. He just listened and nodded while they were the ones trying to qualify themselves. This is the approach I take with women now and it's what has always worked best for me.
at one stage in my life one might have said i was a 'natural'.
i never needed to approach women in my teens/20's or early 30's.
but that all changed in my late 30's.
i'm 40 now and i still don't have a clue.
what i do know is there isn't a hard and fast rule.
as humans we embody limitless possibilities.
but the advice given here is generally sound. regardless of what that possibility may be.
just make sure you don't take advice from skinnyguy or Solomon. lol.
i never needed to approach women in my teens/20's or early 30's.
but that all changed in my late 30's.
i'm 40 now and i still don't have a clue.
what i do know is there isn't a hard and fast rule.
as humans we embody limitless possibilities.
but the advice given here is generally sound. regardless of what that possibility may be.
just make sure you don't take advice from skinnyguy or Solomon. lol.