"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Video: Wife's indifferent soul crushing confession to Husband

Focal core

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To be fair I mean it's reasonable to assume that they feel guilt over this sort of stuff in the same way that you would. I've seen guys that just absolutely cannot comprehend the fact that women feel justified in doing what needs to be done to achieve their relationship goals without guilt. Their attempts to guilt trip women are pretty pathetic and borderline manipulative at a certain level.
yeah guilt tripping a women sounds like a wise idea, she just play along and cry along the way .. That man sounds like a grumpy old dude. I bet he fck her again that night. :rofl:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My buddy is probably going to have his world rocked shortly.

-Wife suddenly dropped 25lbs

-She’s started running

-Getting work done on her face

-Is on him about his drinking ( he has two martinis a night) and she made him go to counseling.

- complains about his diet and fitness

It’s not going to end well
Who drinks martinis these days? :rolleyes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Never discuss this stuff with them...they don't care and don't feel guilty about it....just move on
Lolol bro you are hilarious. You have just totally accepted their nature. You dont even get mad at it anymore. You said they lack all the "fruits of the spirit".
 

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Just look at her body language, she isn't even sorry for what she did. She feels zero guilt, the tone is also a dead giveaway. The guy is getting very emotional while she has sounds like she couldn't care less.

She even laughs and smirks when he brings up her cheating and the fact that she "never cared for anyone".

Go to 22:17
I think I see a bit in the body language. The way she is sitting very child like.

And.... I surprised nobody is mentioning this but...
The cheating is a way to PUNISH and lash out at the man. (Why do I not see this mentioned more often?)

T.
 

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And.... I surprised nobody is mentioning this but...
The cheating is a way to PUNISH and lash out at the man. (Why do I not see this mentioned more often?)
Its more common than you think, I know a woman who cheated on her boyfriend because he was always jealous. She said she did it out of "frustration".

Women these days literally will rationalize anything just to not take accountability.
 

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Its more common than you think, I know a woman who cheated on her boyfriend because he was always jealous. She said she did it out of "frustration".

Women these days literally will rationalize anything just to not take accountability.
I wonder why i havent get at least a bj when they stressed or frustrated at work.. It could be the best place to work.. Ever :cool:
 
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