"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Video Shop FR (Pop Corn)

LeviathanIYG

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4:10pm Last Monday

I was going to the video shop I had to return some DVD’s every Thursday I get some DVD’s and every Monday I return them I kind of get in to routines and find them hard to break. So I walk into the video shop and there’s the HB8.5 working I always talk to her for a bit, very nice girl she’s Turkish she has that whole virgin look going but as we all know looks can be deceiving:

Me: Hey watsup?
HB8.5: nothing much typical Monday you know? (kind of a sad look to emphasize her boredom)
Me: Oh come on you work in a Video shop your surrounded my thousands of great movies and your bored?
HB8.5: There’s no couch or popcorn
Me: Has anyone ever told you, you complain a lot?
HB8.5: Shutupppppp

(We talked a little longer and then I left)

After I left I thought when she said the popcorn thing I could have said “well I’ll tell you what, Thursday night I’ll take you out to a movie and if you’re nice I’ll buy you some popcorn” (I don’t usually buy girls things but this type of girl I judged it ok) but I didn’t say it so I had to think of something else………

4:10pm Today

I walk back into the video shop and she’s working I’m dropping of some DVD’s again but this time I came in with a bag of popcorn. You can buy popcorn in these plastic bags it’s not hot but anyway:

HB8.5: Heyyyyyy how are you?
Me: Im great how about you? Wait wait let me guess your bored?
HB8.5: Wow how did you guess? (that wasn’t really a question)
Me: No couch and no popcorn
HB8.5: (giggles) you remember
Me: Yeh I do, ey guess what?
HB8.5: What?
Me: I’m going to unborden you now
HB8.5: (slight smile) How you going to do that?
Me: (pull out the bag of popcorn from behind the counter) I couldn’t do much about the couch but here’s the popcorn
HB8.5: (she starts laughing and laughing)
Me: Now pick any movie in the store, watch it and eat your popcorn
HB8.5: (still laughing) OMG thank you (laughing)
Me: And Thursday night I’ll take you out to see a movie and you can sit on a comfy chair

When she finally stopped laughing she agreed to go out, we traded numbers and I got a kiss goodbye on the cheek.

When we go out Thursday I’m going to make her buy me popcorn I’ll say “you have to buy me popcorn to return the favor” or something like that.

Yeh that’s my unexpected pickup of the day.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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nectarine

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How refreshing and pleasant. That's about as natural it comes.

Of course it's contingent upon long term captive audience (regular liasing in rental store). A lot can be done with a fostering environment like that, but not everyone has such opportunities.
 

LeviathanIYG

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You are right but I also do straight out cold aprroches check out my previous FR for that.
 

lebRambo

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well done man. thats the kinda sh*t i like to see. :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SELF-MASTERY

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That was nice.
 
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