"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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[Video] Relaxed Body Language & Beach Approach

diablo

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I found this on badboylifestyle.net after receiving an email from a person reminding me of the site:

http://www.badboylifestyle.com/video/cortez_beach.WMV

It gives a good indicator of what a true "relaxed" body is during a pickup... note that there is nothing rigid or uncomfortable looking about anything in the posture. Obviously, this isn't going to be how you'll look when talking up the girl you just saw walking around, but if you take anything from this let it be to keep yourself loose and easy - it's something people notice.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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though it does provide an idea of how relaxed body language works, most pickups do not occur on the beach. How often will you be lying down while doing a pick up? It would have been nicer to see someone standing or atleast sitting.
 
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