"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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[Video] Relaxed Body Language & Beach Approach

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I found this on badboylifestyle.net after receiving an email from a person reminding me of the site:

http://www.badboylifestyle.com/video/cortez_beach.WMV

It gives a good indicator of what a true "relaxed" body is during a pickup... note that there is nothing rigid or uncomfortable looking about anything in the posture. Obviously, this isn't going to be how you'll look when talking up the girl you just saw walking around, but if you take anything from this let it be to keep yourself loose and easy - it's something people notice.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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though it does provide an idea of how relaxed body language works, most pickups do not occur on the beach. How often will you be lying down while doing a pick up? It would have been nicer to see someone standing or atleast sitting.
 
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