"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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[Video] Relaxed Body Language & Beach Approach

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I found this on badboylifestyle.net after receiving an email from a person reminding me of the site:

http://www.badboylifestyle.com/video/cortez_beach.WMV

It gives a good indicator of what a true "relaxed" body is during a pickup... note that there is nothing rigid or uncomfortable looking about anything in the posture. Obviously, this isn't going to be how you'll look when talking up the girl you just saw walking around, but if you take anything from this let it be to keep yourself loose and easy - it's something people notice.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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though it does provide an idea of how relaxed body language works, most pickups do not occur on the beach. How often will you be lying down while doing a pick up? It would have been nicer to see someone standing or atleast sitting.
 
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