"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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[video] PUAMedia.com presents Chariot part 1 & 2

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Yo guys,

While doing our RSD trainer program here at Project Hollywood, me and Chariot decided one day last week to take the video camera out and do a bit of day sarging. I've released the first two videos, which will hopefully be part of a series... Depending on whether or not we get off our asses and out of the house to do more. It features some of the latest RSD material - like the "80's Dogs Opener"; and the "Trust Test". Check them out.

I have to get Chariot to write up a brief field report in the morning. Right now, he and TylerDurden are upstairs banging a 2set they just pulled from "World" nightclub here in Hollywood.

... While I'm here at 4AM KJ'ing. :(

ps. You have to register an account in order to access the videos.

Chariot video #1

http://www.puamedia.com/main/index....d=69&func=fileinfo&parent=folder&filecatid=28

Chariot video #2

http://www.puamedia.com/main/index....d=69&func=fileinfo&parent=folder&filecatid=29
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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the activation email is taking 4 eva to send :(
 

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I'll need to check this one out later.

I dont' mind that it is kind of a spam thread.
 

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I only downloaded part 1, I have a question though, what's the "trust test"?
The video was inaudible during that part.
 

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impressive stuff, did you guys learn everything off the net?

Not to sound gay, but that guy is gd looking, which def helps.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by S0LID
impressive stuff, did you guys learn everything off the net?
ASF stuff is much more usefull in the field, to pick up girls. I know you guys here don't like the jargon etc, but it ****ing works. There's not many posts over there saying 'OMG this girl touched my arm what do i do?'.

There are, however, a hell of a lot of lay reports.
 

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link me bro
 

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where are all the routines on the site?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oh gawd, not more of those bad videos from those guys!

And they ain't getting my email address for their mailing list, I'm not that much of a sucka, nor am I desperate.
 

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Here's my take. I think sosuave.com has a lot of GREAT posts (esp. by Pook...who's one of the best I've read on the web) on inner game and PERSPECTIVE (on life, women, PU). I think you'd be hard pressed to find ANYONE on mASF who writes as eloquently as Pook does. Sosuave is a very motivating site for men....GENERAL EISENHOWER giving a speech before D-day.

I see mASF as the SARGE in a combat unit. The guy who keeps a soldier alive and hands out the nitty gritty battle tactics and tips earned through cold hard experience.

You still have to discount some of what you read on both sites and obviously develop your own style and game. But both have been a real eye-opener for me.
 

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I'm not a fan of street PUs, but I'm going to give a fair critique of these videos. I would actually suggest downloading these as they're quite interesting to analyse.


Clip 1:

This looked like a blow off to me. She wasn't into him, she wanted to leave and the only reason she stuck around was to be polite. The guy portrayed himself as cheeky, cute and non-threatening, which is possibly the only reason she let him get away with being so forward.

I would never suggest pulling a strange woman out of her car, hugging her and holding her hand, especially when she's pulling away as much as she was. Many women would react very badly to this (especially in the UK).

I would be VERY surprised if he ever saw her again. No way was she giving him her real number.



Clip 2:

This woman seemed very receptive to him as soon as they met. Notice how she kept the conversation going by asking him if he's from Australia? He did the right thing here: he stepped down and let her do the talking.

However, he landed in the friend zone almost immediately. The marriage comment was an obvious blow off (right after he touches her), yet she seemed to warm to him in a platonic sense. She seemed like a talkative person, but someone who likes to dominate conversation and have people listen to her. Notice, she politely dismisses the lesbian comment, but then seems to get impatient with the interruption, and then returns to what she was saying.

However, it didn't look like he picked her up and if she made it to the party, it was probably with her husband.
 

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Another thing. In the second clip, watch the body language when they start talking. She's practically waving her wedding ring in his face!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My analysis of the videos:

Typical LA girls (esp. the second one) <fighting the urge to upchuck my lunch> :D
 

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Jariel is right, lol.

I don't mean to sound like a hater, but those guys aren't that good, not good enough to make a video and brag about it on the net.

It's something about PUA that I don't like, they use techniques that they test on 50000 chicks, and every time they see a chick, they use the same technique again.. that's boring, they may bang a chick, but they're still boring...

If you seriously had something going on in your life, you don't need to be a loser who approaches chicks and asks for names for your "imaginary" dogs, yeah it's a technique, but are you so boring that you can't even talk about a "real" event that's going on in your life?

I'll stick to being a natural. ;)
 

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I agree with Jariel here. This is a poor example of a pickup. I think all they demonstrated here, like the I am the future video is that it's not that big of a deal to approach a stranger which is a good thing, since that is such a huge limiting belief for most people.

To me he came accross to even worse than a "male girlfriend", he came accross like the gay friend shopping buddy. The fact that he looks and dresses like a woman isn't helping. I think for most of us here, just being a man and acting like a man while be 100 times more effective then emulating effemenate guys using canned material.
 

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Yeah, I agree that these "pick ups" weren't stunningly successful.
I felt that Chariot's tone was too similar to bang bus type of interviewers/instigators. But whatever, he does way more cold approaches than me so respect for that! At least he persisted and rolled over several of her verbal obstacles like her protest that she had to pee. And it's nice to hear the routines in action rather than in text.

HOWEVER, I really liked the audio bites from Golem99 on PUAmedia.com Now THAT'S how a cool guy sounds in the midst of a sarge. No interviewer or salesman-like tones. Just having a fvcking BLAST!

I'd like to see some vids of TD or Mystery or BB in action to see the crazy responses they claim to get from girls or better yet, to see them turn around sets like Chariot's.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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