"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What's more, it looks like he failed these two pick ups and yet he tries to pass them off as successes. If this is what a PUA considers a success, they're not nearly as good as they preach.
He also needs to improve reading body language.
However, to his credit and as others pointed out, he showed no fear or hesitation.
AlwaysExcel
Senior Don Juan
Why does he need to improve reading BL? He probably noticed it and kept on rolling. This type of street pu is not about trying to figure out whether a girl is digging you and then leaving her alone if she isn't. It's about plowing on until she realizes that she's feeling attracted to you, especially in indirect game.
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Not that I'm calling anyone dumb or the RSD guys geniuses, but they have a service that's in demand and they're making good money through it. Good for them...you have to respect that.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.