"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When your Long term girlfriend is out of the country for her birthday, what do you guys make of recording & sending a video message as part of her present?

Sending by post I mean, not by internet.

And I don't mean anything really lovey dovey, or anything sexual either. Just a pleasant wishing her a good day simple message that lasts only a minute or two.

Lame or alright?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'd just give her a call, but if you want to make a video then do it.
 
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well, only reason why i'm considering it is because we won't see eachother again until September, so it's a long wait.
 
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well, I don't really know enough about your relationship (or the girl in question) to make a particularly sound judgement. But again, I'd probably just go for the call.

However, provided that you two have a good, equal relationship (with high IL on her part) I don't see any real problem with a video. She might think it's sweet.

Just do what feels right, and if you feel you're going further than she would (in terms of amount of affection), then stop.
 
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