"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lot of people doing acceptable video editing on youtube nowadays, where they can bring pictures up on the sceen during the video etc

anyone know if theres a video editing programme everyones using?

I dont believe that half of them are PC whizkids, so there must be something I dont know. :rofl: I think I usedlightworks before, But i dont remember it being called that back then
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I use Shotcut for most of what I do. There's also a program called Lightworks that is also pretty good. Both programs are free, and there are youtube tutorials on how to use them.
 

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anyone know if theres a video editing programme everyones using?
Adobe Premiere is also a very commonly video editing application used by photographers and video editors in the industry:
 

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Adobe Premiere is also a very commonly video editing application used by photographers and video editors in the industry:
Yeah, but I don't think they run premiere pro over an ongoing stream. Premiere is usually used to edit videos AFTER they were made not during. During a livestream, I'd expect the computer to be running pretty hot from having Premiere, 4k recording, and a game or something running in the background. It's probably something much simpler.
 

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I recommend Davinci Resolve. It's free, arguably has the best tools for color grading, and comes with Fusion for compositing where After Effects would normally be used. Some advanced features are paid, but it's still cheaper than an Adobe subscription.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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doesnt need to get to technical,the most i want to do, is upload thumbnail pictures into the screen whilst Im talking. that kind of thing

a bit like when someone shows weight loss results and they bring up a little a thumbnail video of their body when then they first started, but they are still talking in the main part of the screen
 

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Yeah, but I don't think they run premiere pro over an ongoing stream
OBS is the most used streaming software for that..
 
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