"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lot of people doing acceptable video editing on youtube nowadays, where they can bring pictures up on the sceen during the video etc

anyone know if theres a video editing programme everyones using?

I dont believe that half of them are PC whizkids, so there must be something I dont know. :rofl: I think I usedlightworks before, But i dont remember it being called that back then
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I use Shotcut for most of what I do. There's also a program called Lightworks that is also pretty good. Both programs are free, and there are youtube tutorials on how to use them.
 

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anyone know if theres a video editing programme everyones using?
Adobe Premiere is also a very commonly video editing application used by photographers and video editors in the industry:
 

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Adobe Premiere is also a very commonly video editing application used by photographers and video editors in the industry:
Yeah, but I don't think they run premiere pro over an ongoing stream. Premiere is usually used to edit videos AFTER they were made not during. During a livestream, I'd expect the computer to be running pretty hot from having Premiere, 4k recording, and a game or something running in the background. It's probably something much simpler.
 

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I recommend Davinci Resolve. It's free, arguably has the best tools for color grading, and comes with Fusion for compositing where After Effects would normally be used. Some advanced features are paid, but it's still cheaper than an Adobe subscription.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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doesnt need to get to technical,the most i want to do, is upload thumbnail pictures into the screen whilst Im talking. that kind of thing

a bit like when someone shows weight loss results and they bring up a little a thumbnail video of their body when then they first started, but they are still talking in the main part of the screen
 

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Yeah, but I don't think they run premiere pro over an ongoing stream
OBS is the most used streaming software for that..
 
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