"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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VIDEO - AFC on a blind date with HB9 (NOT from a TV show)

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http://youtube.com/watch?v=ONqXPi9v-uU

I think sosuave covers everything that this guy should NOT be doing LOL

this is not from any dating show, but apparently a home video someone made, possibly with a hidden camera.......i believe this ISNT fake, in which case, all i gotta say is WOW
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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arlanda said:
HB9?!? She's maybe 7.5.
skip thinks shes a 9, you think shes a 7 i say we use the 0-1 scale

0=shes a fat cow

1=definatly fvckable
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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arlanda, i bet u say shes a 7.5 based on her being dressed conservitively....but what I see is a beautiful face and what is most definitely a HOT very nice body underneath

she doesnt have to be dressed slutty to get a 9
 

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oh shyt i didnt kno it was fake, i didnt watch any of the other videos there.,.....but u guys do realize that even tho its not to THAT extreme, THAT is basically how a stupid AFC acts on a date
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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oh shyt i didnt kno it was fake, i didnt watch any of the other videos there.,.....but u guys do realize that even tho its not to THAT extreme, THAT is basically how a stupid AFC acts on a date
Are you sure? I think he handled pretty well for a guy who is barely able to talk and hasn't at least made a bit of efford to look good. :)

I always thought of AFCs as regular guys who do everything "right" and still don't get anything.
 

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Dude, she's definately an HB7 at best! Your scale is really fvcked up!
 

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Skydiver43127 said:
Are you sure? I think he handled pretty well for a guy who is barely able to talk and hasn't at least made a bit of efford to look good. :)

I always thought of AFCs as regular guys who do everything "right" and still don't get anything.
An AFC is the opposite of a DJ. Any sensible woman has a good time on a date with a DJ. I think of an AFC as any guy with absolutely no clue as to how women think, what they want, how to get and keep her ineterest, etc. So if this guy was for real, he would definitely be an AFC.
 

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You guys forget the definition of AFC.

AVERAGE-frustrated-chump

If it's real THIS GUY IS NOT AVERAGE. The *average* is basically a normal guy you know, most men I know CAN hold a conversation, but just have a fcked up idea that women are the prize and they have to work for it.

This guy would be FCKED UP, he's not AFC. He's far from that.
 

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Heh, it must be so much easier for AFC girls to attract guys, all they have to do is start dressing sl*tty to get more attention from dudes.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ok so this video is FAKE, as somone pointed out earlier in the thread........but what can u learn from this? did u guys notice the ONE thing the chick hated the MOST???

THE GUY DIDNT HAVE A PLAN.....he said what do YOU wanna do?

i read it b4 on sosuave, u ALWAYS must lead.....thats at least somethin to take out of this fake lil video
 

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Well I would say she is a 7 perhaps a low 8 in more flattering clothes and makeup

My scale is

1 Vommit wrenchingly ugly - I cannot remember seeing any of them
2 Very very ugly - terrible body terrible face - 1/100 young woman
3 Ugly - can be looked at without having to avoid her face but it is hard even imagine anyone having relations with her.
4 Very plain,
5 Low average: not ugly by any means but many girls are prettier
6 High average: when they have a nice personality and dress well they could be desirable
7 Quite pretty: prettier then most girls but perhaps with noticeable flaws, girls like her make men take a second glance
8 exceptionally pretty: a girl like this could make it as a model
9 Stunning: wow! a rare beauty, it is hard not to stare
10 Perfect: all parts of her physical apperance are flawless. I have only seen a few woman like this in the last few years (I live in the UK)
 

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1 Vommit wrenchingly ugly - I cannot remember seeing any of them
2 Very very ugly - terrible body terrible face - 1/100 young woman
3 Ugly - can be looked at without having to avoid her face but it is hard even imagine anyone having relations with her.
4 Very plain,
5 Low average: not ugly by any means but many girls are prettier
6 High average: when they have a nice personality and dress well they could be desirable
7 Quite pretty: prettier then most girls but perhaps with noticeable flaws, girls like her make men take a second glance
8 exceptionally pretty: a girl like this could make it as a model
9 Stunning: wow! a rare beauty, it is hard not to stare
10 Perfect: all parts of her physical apperance are flawless. I have only seen a few woman like this in the last few years (I live in the UK)
1-4 -> don't even register

5-6 -> i at least notice them

7 -> For me, this is a very cute girl... for whatever reason she has a certain style, a certain type of voice or physical feature that appeals to me greatly and I just smile when I think about them.

7.5 -> 7 + great personality (most girls I date are here)

8.0 -> Most desired by me, more physically attractive than a 7 (better body, face is usually around that of 7), but also has the cute features that I desire

9 - 10 -> Exceptionally beautiful, pretty much perfect... perfection dosen't interest me much... can't hate they are beautiful, but not too desireful for me



-Cod3r
 

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Cod3r said:
1-4 -> don't even register
No, trust me, you will notice the 1s and 2s, or at least your stomach will :nervous: :nervous: :nervous:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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