"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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VIDEO - AFC on a blind date with HB9 (NOT from a TV show)

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http://youtube.com/watch?v=ONqXPi9v-uU

I think sosuave covers everything that this guy should NOT be doing LOL

this is not from any dating show, but apparently a home video someone made, possibly with a hidden camera.......i believe this ISNT fake, in which case, all i gotta say is WOW
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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arlanda said:
HB9?!? She's maybe 7.5.
skip thinks shes a 9, you think shes a 7 i say we use the 0-1 scale

0=shes a fat cow

1=definatly fvckable
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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arlanda, i bet u say shes a 7.5 based on her being dressed conservitively....but what I see is a beautiful face and what is most definitely a HOT very nice body underneath

she doesnt have to be dressed slutty to get a 9
 

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oh shyt i didnt kno it was fake, i didnt watch any of the other videos there.,.....but u guys do realize that even tho its not to THAT extreme, THAT is basically how a stupid AFC acts on a date
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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oh shyt i didnt kno it was fake, i didnt watch any of the other videos there.,.....but u guys do realize that even tho its not to THAT extreme, THAT is basically how a stupid AFC acts on a date
Are you sure? I think he handled pretty well for a guy who is barely able to talk and hasn't at least made a bit of efford to look good. :)

I always thought of AFCs as regular guys who do everything "right" and still don't get anything.
 

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Dude, she's definately an HB7 at best! Your scale is really fvcked up!
 

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Skydiver43127 said:
Are you sure? I think he handled pretty well for a guy who is barely able to talk and hasn't at least made a bit of efford to look good. :)

I always thought of AFCs as regular guys who do everything "right" and still don't get anything.
An AFC is the opposite of a DJ. Any sensible woman has a good time on a date with a DJ. I think of an AFC as any guy with absolutely no clue as to how women think, what they want, how to get and keep her ineterest, etc. So if this guy was for real, he would definitely be an AFC.
 

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You guys forget the definition of AFC.

AVERAGE-frustrated-chump

If it's real THIS GUY IS NOT AVERAGE. The *average* is basically a normal guy you know, most men I know CAN hold a conversation, but just have a fcked up idea that women are the prize and they have to work for it.

This guy would be FCKED UP, he's not AFC. He's far from that.
 

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Heh, it must be so much easier for AFC girls to attract guys, all they have to do is start dressing sl*tty to get more attention from dudes.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ok so this video is FAKE, as somone pointed out earlier in the thread........but what can u learn from this? did u guys notice the ONE thing the chick hated the MOST???

THE GUY DIDNT HAVE A PLAN.....he said what do YOU wanna do?

i read it b4 on sosuave, u ALWAYS must lead.....thats at least somethin to take out of this fake lil video
 

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Well I would say she is a 7 perhaps a low 8 in more flattering clothes and makeup

My scale is

1 Vommit wrenchingly ugly - I cannot remember seeing any of them
2 Very very ugly - terrible body terrible face - 1/100 young woman
3 Ugly - can be looked at without having to avoid her face but it is hard even imagine anyone having relations with her.
4 Very plain,
5 Low average: not ugly by any means but many girls are prettier
6 High average: when they have a nice personality and dress well they could be desirable
7 Quite pretty: prettier then most girls but perhaps with noticeable flaws, girls like her make men take a second glance
8 exceptionally pretty: a girl like this could make it as a model
9 Stunning: wow! a rare beauty, it is hard not to stare
10 Perfect: all parts of her physical apperance are flawless. I have only seen a few woman like this in the last few years (I live in the UK)
 

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1 Vommit wrenchingly ugly - I cannot remember seeing any of them
2 Very very ugly - terrible body terrible face - 1/100 young woman
3 Ugly - can be looked at without having to avoid her face but it is hard even imagine anyone having relations with her.
4 Very plain,
5 Low average: not ugly by any means but many girls are prettier
6 High average: when they have a nice personality and dress well they could be desirable
7 Quite pretty: prettier then most girls but perhaps with noticeable flaws, girls like her make men take a second glance
8 exceptionally pretty: a girl like this could make it as a model
9 Stunning: wow! a rare beauty, it is hard not to stare
10 Perfect: all parts of her physical apperance are flawless. I have only seen a few woman like this in the last few years (I live in the UK)
1-4 -> don't even register

5-6 -> i at least notice them

7 -> For me, this is a very cute girl... for whatever reason she has a certain style, a certain type of voice or physical feature that appeals to me greatly and I just smile when I think about them.

7.5 -> 7 + great personality (most girls I date are here)

8.0 -> Most desired by me, more physically attractive than a 7 (better body, face is usually around that of 7), but also has the cute features that I desire

9 - 10 -> Exceptionally beautiful, pretty much perfect... perfection dosen't interest me much... can't hate they are beautiful, but not too desireful for me



-Cod3r
 

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Cod3r said:
1-4 -> don't even register
No, trust me, you will notice the 1s and 2s, or at least your stomach will :nervous: :nervous: :nervous:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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