“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Very odd situation, but what would you guys do?

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Well, this kind of an odd situation, but if you heard a girl, crying, obviously in despair, what would you do? Would you simply try ignore it(as it hard as that is), or would you say something to the girl? Why am I asking? I was in this situation at school earlier. I was just sitting down waiting for my ride, when I hear this chick crying obviously very sad about something. It was very hard to ignore, and I wondered if I should of just said something to her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Women are more open with their emotions in public. Unless she appeared hurt or in danger, it really isn't your business sticking your nose into the situation. You could ask her, "Are you hurt? Do you need some kind of assistance?" and if she wants to open up to you she is. If you are equipped to handle being the emotional tampon then by all means go for it, but unless you are looking to take advantage of someone who is vulnerable and crying, this really isnt an opportune time to pickup.
 

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Eh, maybe I still retain some AFC qualities, but I wouldn't be able to stop myself from going over and seeing if I could do something to help. I'm a sucker for tears.

Then again, if it was a guy crying, I'd probably still do the same thing, though I'd be expecting a punch in the face.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I wouldnt do anything, and heres why...people more often than not dont open up to people they dont feel comfortable opening up to, let alone strangers. Are you gonna get a girls number whos balling her eyes out? I doubt it. That would be more than awkward. Not to mention the off chance of you getting her number, her association of you to the mood she was previously in. Thats why you dont hit on girls you first meet if theyre in a bad mood. Association emotions to people has a strong effect. Unless youre good at what you do (youre not...at this point in time), i wouldnt suggest it. But hey, what the fvck do i know.
 

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This is proubly the best post hes ever posted i must say.

Not a big deal, just ask if shes ok and see where it goes from there.
 

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I would ask her if she was okay, but not with the intention of getting a number. Just to be a good person.
 

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JLW said:
I would ask her if she was okay, but not with the intention of getting a number. Just to be a good person.
Yeah, exactly. I think some people need to remember that as odd as they are, women are still people.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mr_rogers said:
Yeah, exactly. I think some people need to remember that as odd as they are, women are still people.
exactly. I would always ask the girl (or guy) if they were okay. let's not forget some basic human kindness in the midst of all this C+F/neg-hit/flaking/LJBF/KFC hocus pocus now..
 

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Berlex said:
neg hit her
I hope you were joking and this did make me laugh out loud. Please dont do this. :box: :box: :box: :box: :box: :box:
 

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musclyjerk said:
"Why are you crying? We all have bad hair days" :rockon:

ooo cold-blooded

lol
 

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You don't have to bang every girl, if she's hurt or you honestly feel you can help her there's no harm in just being a good person.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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oakraiderz2 said:
I wouldnt do anything, and heres why...people more often than not dont open up to people they dont feel comfortable opening up to, let alone strangers. Are you gonna get a girls number whos balling her eyes out? I doubt it. That would be more than awkward. Not to mention the off chance of you getting her number, her association of you to the mood she was previously in. Thats why you dont hit on girls you first meet if theyre in a bad mood. Association emotions to people has a strong effect. Unless youre good at what you do (youre not...at this point in time), i wouldnt suggest it. But hey, what the fvck do i know.
QFT. It's none of your business, stay out. She wouldn't tell you why, and on the off chance you did form a relationship...you're just seen as someone who cares for all her problems....
 

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yea man a dj should always be kind hearted whether shes around a girl or not. Obviously if shes hot then thats better, if shes not then still talk to her and try to cheer her up so when your girl is down u no wat to do.
 
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