Squy
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Very Incredible Stuff Here
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Gangster Of Love
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This post is pretty good. I don't think anyone else has brought it up on this thread, but that is mostly taken from David Deangelo's ebook Double Your Dating, I was reading it today for the 3rd time. This thread was started years ago, probably before David's book, so I wonder if he posted it himself originally, or somebody got a hold of his rough drafts. Very interesting.
Fillmore Slim
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Heard this Before
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heteropedro
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Thats deangelos stuff. Download his ebook on ***** if your a cheap bastard.
Lost
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what is the purpose of this:
"Here are a couple of rules of thumb that I use:
1) Never give a woman a direct answer. unless the answer is NO. This is a big one. If she says 'Can we sit here?" I say "No, let's sit in this one next to it" or if she says "How do you like my dress?" I say "Well, I think that I like it. just give me a few minutes to see it on you" or if she says "Call me tomorrow" I say "No. You call me tomorrow. cummon, you want me and you know it" Get it?
"
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like if a chick asks if i like her hair or glasses or WHATEVER.. and im like hmm lemme think about it.....wtf?
"Here are a couple of rules of thumb that I use:
1) Never give a woman a direct answer. unless the answer is NO. This is a big one. If she says 'Can we sit here?" I say "No, let's sit in this one next to it" or if she says "How do you like my dress?" I say "Well, I think that I like it. just give me a few minutes to see it on you" or if she says "Call me tomorrow" I say "No. You call me tomorrow. cummon, you want me and you know it" Get it?
"
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like if a chick asks if i like her hair or glasses or WHATEVER.. and im like hmm lemme think about it.....wtf?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Some confusion here I see...
For those of you who don't know, Sisonpyh (The author of this) was David DeAngelo's nick on some newsletter before he came out with his DYD book. This is a great post tho....
For those of you who don't know, Sisonpyh (The author of this) was David DeAngelo's nick on some newsletter before he came out with his DYD book. This is a great post tho....
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Sisonpyh is David deangelo! 
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
duke007
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Bumpity-bump!
This stuff is amazing! I'm disappointed that I only just found this thread....I haven't felt this way since the day I first read Pook's "Be A Man"
This stuff is amazing! I'm disappointed that I only just found this thread....I haven't felt this way since the day I first read Pook's "Be A Man"
DJHoolahoop
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yeah this has got to be David DeAngelo's stuff... he always makes mention of finding guys who know their shyt to go hang out with to learn from. He also makes mention of "comedy writing secrets" all the time and finally the way it sounds totally has at least some trace of David D's material.
still was a good read
still was a good read
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I beleive the original author of this post might be no other than David DeAngelo.
He was once one of RJ student, brother Evan if Im not mistaken.
Please note I could be wrong.
He was once one of RJ student, brother Evan if Im not mistaken.
Please note I could be wrong.
brat-buster
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Definatly stuff from DeAngelo's book and cd's.....Verbatum.
It does work tho......good stuff
It does work tho......good stuff
izza
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That was amazing.
--Izza
--Izza
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The Juan and only
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yes, I believe "David Deangelo" also goes by the screen name "Sisonpyh"... (+ I read that his real name is actually Eben pagan..or soemthing like that)..all very confusing.
Agreed... Neil Strauss talks about it in his book "The Game". David Deangelo used to post in the lair as Sisonpyh, and actually began his game through internet chats and what not. Pretty cool, but, as a pioneer in the game, he essentially started off where all YOU guys are at... in a discussion forum.
Who knows, Pook or Shezz or some others might make their own websites and start marketing their material. As long as it's not watered down and regurgitated, it'd definitely be awesome to see someone come out and represent for sosuave.com.
Or maybe speak at Cliff's List Convention '06... !!!
Who knows, Pook or Shezz or some others might make their own websites and start marketing their material. As long as it's not watered down and regurgitated, it'd definitely be awesome to see someone come out and represent for sosuave.com.
Or maybe speak at Cliff's List Convention '06... !!!
In any case good article, as some intro to DYD and DeAngelo stuff. I started my game from this method and it is good starter, but after some time i realized thet i missed something - complete game. This is good for attraction phase of game, but you need more. Good insights about this problem are in above mentioned Strauss' - Game.
dj ben2
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sorry to burst ur buble but that guy sysonymph wotever iz a fake hat was an extract from one of david deangeloes books, either he broke copywrite and published it or this sysonyphm dude knows how to copy and paste
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.