"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Very Incredible Stuff Here

IntermediateDonJuaner

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I do not really agree completely with what Sisonpyh had written. I believe in those challenge and mystery stuffs but the idea of pursing chick is not good. Basically, I can see that he is trying to teach men how to be jerks.

If anyone thinks that this will work,fine.! Go ahead and use it.I am not stopping you but if there are any problems that crop up,then you know what to do.

Have a nice day!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It is my DJ duty to scream and make noise until this makes it into the Hall of Fame. Seriously. This is The Method.

*S
 

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Hey BGC, thankx for taking the time to post that article from Sisonpyh here at the forum. It is truly amazing and life altering information. I cannot remember the last time I read something with just an abundance of useful information. Neo, this should definely be in the DJ Bible

"If your rap is strong, it can't go wrong."

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Just one question, what the hell is "being ****y"?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i've been waiting for this post my whole life!thank god i discovered this while i'm 23.fascinating stuff.i've always hidden my character.
 

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Oh wow! fukking GOLD! This post is awesome! I wish I could sit here and tell you how great every part of it is, just to make other people pay attention to it more- because it rocks.

But I'm sure your next post will be better=)

-Buzz
 

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I did not understand the term "****y" can someone help me?
 

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Thought I'd bump this post, and explain "****y" while I'm at it:

Have you ever seen a guy somewhere that is absolutely sure that he's the master of the situation? Sure that he is the Top Dog and can handle any person or women, is confident to the point of absurdity, and certain that everyone there is inferior to him? that's a ****y guy.

daaamnuh. I can't even type straight. it's late in the evening, time to go to Bed!

*S
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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****y is an arrogant and dominant man?????

Thanks
 

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By the way, I don't know if any of you guys know but this guy is David Deangelo and he writes a weekly column for this site.

He has a weekly newsletter that has helped me tremendously and also has his own book about this stuff... well worth it. Check it out @ www.doubleyourdating.com and if nothing, subscribe to the newsletter, it kicks @ss.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Rhyudog:
BGC,
I read your article about "Surefire Technique to Make Chick Reach Orgasm."
GREAT POST.
Where can I find this article? It sounds interesting/useful. Cheers!
 

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damn I'm probably the only one that thinks this post isn't that great. I mean there are some valid points, mainly in that of not doing with the average guy would do. But the whole getting email bit? She'll for sure think you meet girls on the net. (Who doesn't?, but still not something a lot of people want to admit)
 

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Im with Syphex on this, where can we read this "Surefire Technique to Make Chick Reach Orgasm?"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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