Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Maybe you're not insecure since you claim you're not but it seems like you should be.DonJuanForever said:L777, What do I have insecurities about, lol? LOL, it's funny, "I am the insecure one" when you are the one who "feels the need" to tell me what you think and what you don't think about "me" when you don't know "me." Lol, that shows me that you are the one who's insecure about something, what, does the truth hurt that your little don juan bible is not all its cracked up to be? :crazy: It'll be okay NEWBIE.
I like me. That doesn't mean i don't want to be a better me tomorrow. I don't want more than 1 woman either because I don't have enough time or patience for more than one woman. I have other things to do. Be damned getting laid more often and sampling dozens of women. Besides, find a quality woman who loves sex and you get it like every day anyway.Who the hell ever said we needed a "self improvement" site anyway? We came here to increase our "lays a day," not because we HATED OURSELVES. lol, I will respond to you guys later, peace. Read this though:
DonJuanForever said:The DJ Bible comes up with stuff and theories based on what some guy THINKS A WOMAN NEEDS, fvck that, ASK HER AZZ WHAT SHE NEEDS! Now, develop a theory that will work, FOR HER AZZ! Not some "one size fits all theory" but a "theory for each bytch."
Along the lines of what you said... a bit more proof from a female mouth..JonSter said:In other words, after two or three months -- if it gets past the first date -- she sees "the man" that failed her initial chemistry test. In the beginning I only thought about making them happy, what they're thinking, what do they want to do, what can I buy them, please like me...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
And what about this:Desdinova said:I'm going to make a little change to this statement. Women give advice based on how they FEEL a man should act.
Women run on their emotions, which is the exact reason why destini9 started her website. She was pissed off that she had fallen for a guy who ran Speed Seduction on her.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
OMFG IM SO STONED AND THAT **** WAS ****ING HILARIOUS READ THAT POST LMAO:rockon: :rockon: :rockon: :rockon: :moon: :moon: :cuss: :nono:Lovesorrow said:And what about this:
Once I asked my 18 female student what her impression about me was and she said I should have my hair cut *I have a somewhat long one, I should eat more *I am thin, lol, I should have a girlfriend because I would be lovely.
Suggestions?
:crazy: I didn´t get it. Come on man.pooparu said:OMFG IM SO STONED AND THAT **** WAS ****ING HILARIOUS READ THAT POST LMAO:rockon: :rockon: :rockon: :rockon: :moon: :moon: :cuss: :nono:
I think you MISread my post. She said my hair was long and I was thin. :moon:pooparu said:His hair is thin, he should eat more? Lol that makes no sense, I don't think there is any corrolation (lmao funny word) between eating and hair thickness, I think thats more genetics. Lmao its funny for some reason or another. And corrolation is also quite funny :rockon: :rockon: