Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Maybe you're not insecure since you claim you're not but it seems like you should be.DonJuanForever said:L777, What do I have insecurities about, lol? LOL, it's funny, "I am the insecure one" when you are the one who "feels the need" to tell me what you think and what you don't think about "me" when you don't know "me." Lol, that shows me that you are the one who's insecure about something, what, does the truth hurt that your little don juan bible is not all its cracked up to be? :crazy: It'll be okay NEWBIE.
I like me. That doesn't mean i don't want to be a better me tomorrow. I don't want more than 1 woman either because I don't have enough time or patience for more than one woman. I have other things to do. Be damned getting laid more often and sampling dozens of women. Besides, find a quality woman who loves sex and you get it like every day anyway.Who the hell ever said we needed a "self improvement" site anyway? We came here to increase our "lays a day," not because we HATED OURSELVES. lol, I will respond to you guys later, peace. Read this though:
DonJuanForever said:The DJ Bible comes up with stuff and theories based on what some guy THINKS A WOMAN NEEDS, fvck that, ASK HER AZZ WHAT SHE NEEDS! Now, develop a theory that will work, FOR HER AZZ! Not some "one size fits all theory" but a "theory for each bytch."
Along the lines of what you said... a bit more proof from a female mouth..JonSter said:In other words, after two or three months -- if it gets past the first date -- she sees "the man" that failed her initial chemistry test. In the beginning I only thought about making them happy, what they're thinking, what do they want to do, what can I buy them, please like me...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
And what about this:Desdinova said:I'm going to make a little change to this statement. Women give advice based on how they FEEL a man should act.
Women run on their emotions, which is the exact reason why destini9 started her website. She was pissed off that she had fallen for a guy who ran Speed Seduction on her.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
OMFG IM SO STONED AND THAT **** WAS ****ING HILARIOUS READ THAT POST LMAO:rockon: :rockon: :rockon: :rockon: :moon: :moon: :cuss: :nono:Lovesorrow said:And what about this:
Once I asked my 18 female student what her impression about me was and she said I should have my hair cut *I have a somewhat long one, I should eat more *I am thin, lol, I should have a girlfriend because I would be lovely.
Suggestions?
:crazy: I didn´t get it. Come on man.pooparu said:OMFG IM SO STONED AND THAT **** WAS ****ING HILARIOUS READ THAT POST LMAO:rockon: :rockon: :rockon: :rockon: :moon: :moon: :cuss: :nono:
I think you MISread my post. She said my hair was long and I was thin. :moon:pooparu said:His hair is thin, he should eat more? Lol that makes no sense, I don't think there is any corrolation (lmao funny word) between eating and hair thickness, I think thats more genetics. Lmao its funny for some reason or another. And corrolation is also quite funny :rockon: :rockon: