You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Maybe you're not insecure since you claim you're not but it seems like you should be.DonJuanForever said:L777, What do I have insecurities about, lol? LOL, it's funny, "I am the insecure one" when you are the one who "feels the need" to tell me what you think and what you don't think about "me" when you don't know "me." Lol, that shows me that you are the one who's insecure about something, what, does the truth hurt that your little don juan bible is not all its cracked up to be? :crazy: It'll be okay NEWBIE.
I like me. That doesn't mean i don't want to be a better me tomorrow. I don't want more than 1 woman either because I don't have enough time or patience for more than one woman. I have other things to do. Be damned getting laid more often and sampling dozens of women. Besides, find a quality woman who loves sex and you get it like every day anyway.Who the hell ever said we needed a "self improvement" site anyway? We came here to increase our "lays a day," not because we HATED OURSELVES. lol, I will respond to you guys later, peace. Read this though:
DonJuanForever said:The DJ Bible comes up with stuff and theories based on what some guy THINKS A WOMAN NEEDS, fvck that, ASK HER AZZ WHAT SHE NEEDS! Now, develop a theory that will work, FOR HER AZZ! Not some "one size fits all theory" but a "theory for each bytch."
Along the lines of what you said... a bit more proof from a female mouth..JonSter said:In other words, after two or three months -- if it gets past the first date -- she sees "the man" that failed her initial chemistry test. In the beginning I only thought about making them happy, what they're thinking, what do they want to do, what can I buy them, please like me...
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
And what about this:Desdinova said:I'm going to make a little change to this statement. Women give advice based on how they FEEL a man should act.
Women run on their emotions, which is the exact reason why destini9 started her website. She was pissed off that she had fallen for a guy who ran Speed Seduction on her.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
OMFG IM SO STONED AND THAT **** WAS ****ING HILARIOUS READ THAT POST LMAO:rockon: :rockon: :rockon: :rockon: :moon: :moon: :cuss: :nono:Lovesorrow said:And what about this:
Once I asked my 18 female student what her impression about me was and she said I should have my hair cut *I have a somewhat long one, I should eat more *I am thin, lol, I should have a girlfriend because I would be lovely.
Suggestions?
:crazy: I didn´t get it. Come on man.pooparu said:OMFG IM SO STONED AND THAT **** WAS ****ING HILARIOUS READ THAT POST LMAO:rockon: :rockon: :rockon: :rockon: :moon: :moon: :cuss: :nono:
I think you MISread my post. She said my hair was long and I was thin. :moon:pooparu said:His hair is thin, he should eat more? Lol that makes no sense, I don't think there is any corrolation (lmao funny word) between eating and hair thickness, I think thats more genetics. Lmao its funny for some reason or another. And corrolation is also quite funny :rockon: :rockon: