"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Vertical Jump

DJ-TrickY

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Hey all, im trying to increase my vertical jump as you can probably tell. Im looking for some advice on what specific exercises i should do from any one who has considerable experience with this. Right now its about 22 inches
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Create Reality

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ideally you should do squats, and do them fast and hard. do them fast and hard to activate the fast-twitch muscle fibers, which are the same ones you use when you jump. training jumps with slow squatting isnt as effective as this. also some ppl say do calf raises, but i fail to see how that will improve your vertical at all rather than overtraining your calfs.
 

Dobo

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You can use a machine called a Velocity Builder. You are strapped down by elastic and you just jump. Keep on with that and you will soon find you can jump a little higher.
 

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Don't bother with machine and gimmicks (shoes, ankle weights, whatever bs).

The key is to increase your power

like the previous gentlemen said: weights and plyo will help

a good squat routine to try is the box squat

something liek 50% of your 1RM and just do 2 reps in 2 seconds for 10 sets

be careful with plyo though the impact will easily overtrain you

good luck man
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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