benjiprice
Don Juan
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So while I agree that one shouldn't verbalize romantic feeling and try to discuss a relationship with a girl in a "logical" way, I wonder what you guys think about verbalising non-romantic feelings.
I'm meeting up with my ex tomorrow. She broke up with me a couple weeks ago, after we got back together two times when I broke up with her (at 2 different times). I certainly still like her, and she know it. I'm moving on, but I'm still very connected to her and was thinking of sharing things that have occurred within me at a personal level this summer. I feel I've grown on a lot of aspects of myself and even though I've always been a very confident person, I feel I've reached a new level; I feel I'm in a new zone. Everything I want to say is framed positively and it doesn't involve explicitly downplaying my past self.
These developments don't affect us directly, but I'm wondering if by verbalising them it might look like I'm trying to qualify myself. I don't want it to look like I'm trying to sell myself to her.
Should I just keep my mouth shut and have a good time or would you talk about this stuff? Given our history I wouldn't be surprised if we got back together in the future or became FBs (we've been that before too). So while I don't need her to be happy and get layed, I don't want to totally kill the attraction between us.
Thoughts?
I'm meeting up with my ex tomorrow. She broke up with me a couple weeks ago, after we got back together two times when I broke up with her (at 2 different times). I certainly still like her, and she know it. I'm moving on, but I'm still very connected to her and was thinking of sharing things that have occurred within me at a personal level this summer. I feel I've grown on a lot of aspects of myself and even though I've always been a very confident person, I feel I've reached a new level; I feel I'm in a new zone. Everything I want to say is framed positively and it doesn't involve explicitly downplaying my past self.
These developments don't affect us directly, but I'm wondering if by verbalising them it might look like I'm trying to qualify myself. I don't want it to look like I'm trying to sell myself to her.
Should I just keep my mouth shut and have a good time or would you talk about this stuff? Given our history I wouldn't be surprised if we got back together in the future or became FBs (we've been that before too). So while I don't need her to be happy and get layed, I don't want to totally kill the attraction between us.
Thoughts?