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Vasectomy and SMV

FMCSMT

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ive kinda wondered lately if not being able to reproduce has lowered my smv.

I would think the obvious answer is yes.

I also wonder if this is something I should hide?

What are your thoughts?
 

narcissist

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ive kinda wondered lately if not being able to reproduce has lowered my smv.

I would think the obvious answer is yes.

I also wonder if this is something I should hide?

What are your thoughts?
why even say anything about it. Its not hiding it, its just not saying it. If the girl asks you if you have had a vasectomy then tell em the truth, but I have never in my life ever had a girl ask me that. So just don't say anything. It is only lowering your SMV if you are blatantly and overtly making a point about it, even if they don't ask. which is kinda weird.
 

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You need to tell her about this in two instances.

If you are about to get it on and she asks of you have a condom/or hands you one AND you already know you would bare back this chick. Then offer to go without one letting her know that there is no risk of pregnancy.

The other time is of she brings up wanting kids and/or asks you of you want to have kids. Tell her then.

Or if she asks directly, but that rarely happens without some sort of indication.

Otherwise there's no other social reason for it to be discussed, unless you just like putting it out there.

As far as lowering your SMV, if she does not want to have kids then it makes you more attractive.
 

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I've found that it raises my SMV when I mention it(as long as she doesn't want kids). Several get excited about it. I think its the fantasy of having a guy explode inside of them and not having to worry about getting pregnant! :D:p:D
 

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It makes them want to fvck like crazy animals. They don't have to worry about pills, condoms, etc. They also know that reversals exist should they want kids.

So the answer is no, it doesn't lower your SMV.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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