"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Valentines

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For those of you with LT g/f who you're involved with, what are you all doing for Valentines? Besides the whole flowers and candy cliche deal...

-FD
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Desdinova

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I'm not doing flowers and candy. That is a thoughtless, store bought novely.

I haven't really figured out what I'm doing yet. I'll come up with something creative by the weekend.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Desdinova
I'm not doing flowers and candy. That is a thoughtless, store bought novely.
Well said... :up:
 

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Tuesday...that would consist of..
Sleeping (and waking up)
Going to work
Working all day
Coming home
It's been a week..so probably some online poker for real money.

Basically, spending it by and for myself.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Pineapple Juice...hillarious!

Yeah the "store bought" lovey dovey stuff is def. not the way to make an impression.
 

STR8UP

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Got one chick that wants me to take her out for V-day. All I want to do is bang her, so I better be gettin' some if I'm going to be putting this much effort into this..

Had another one say, "What about me" when I mentioned the other chick and valentines day.

Damn, I think I could bang both of them! Maybe I should set up an am and pm schedule and try to pull both of them.
 
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