"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Valentines

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For those of you with LT g/f who you're involved with, what are you all doing for Valentines? Besides the whole flowers and candy cliche deal...

-FD
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Desdinova

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I'm not doing flowers and candy. That is a thoughtless, store bought novely.

I haven't really figured out what I'm doing yet. I'll come up with something creative by the weekend.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Desdinova
I'm not doing flowers and candy. That is a thoughtless, store bought novely.
Well said... :up:
 

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Tuesday...that would consist of..
Sleeping (and waking up)
Going to work
Working all day
Coming home
It's been a week..so probably some online poker for real money.

Basically, spending it by and for myself.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Pineapple Juice...hillarious!

Yeah the "store bought" lovey dovey stuff is def. not the way to make an impression.
 

STR8UP

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Got one chick that wants me to take her out for V-day. All I want to do is bang her, so I better be gettin' some if I'm going to be putting this much effort into this..

Had another one say, "What about me" when I mentioned the other chick and valentines day.

Damn, I think I could bang both of them! Maybe I should set up an am and pm schedule and try to pull both of them.
 
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