"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Valentines Day

Rollo Tomassi

Rollo Tomassi

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Valentines Day 2004:

After a day at work Rollo confidently strides up to the front door of the home HE owns and fiddles for the key in his jacket pocket only to have Mrs. Tomassi open the door for him in little more than a sheer pink neglige, hip high stockings and holding two dry martinins. "Our daughter is with grandma for the evening, happy Valentines Day!" she says as she closes the door behind him.

Later that evening after the mind-bending sex, Rollo says, "That was great, now how about I take you out for an expensive meal now." "If you want to,.." is Mrs. Tomassi's reply.

Valentines Day 2005: ?


You know, Valentines Day is supposed to be a celebration of love for both parties involved. Where's the equitability? Heheheh,..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Valentines Day? What's that? I prefer Talk Like A Pirate Day.
 
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lol...

Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
Valentines Day 2004:

After a day at work Rollo confidently strides up to the front door of the home HE owns and fiddles for the key in his jacket pocket only to have Mrs. Tomassi open the door for him in little more than a sheer pink neglige, hip high stockings and holding two dry martinins. "Our daughter is with grandma for the evening, happy Valentines Day!" she says as she closes the door behind him.

Later that evening after the mind-bending sex, Rollo says, "That was great, now how about I take you out for an expensive meal now." "If you want to,.." is Mrs. Tomassi's reply.

Valentines Day 2005: ?


You know, Valentines Day is supposed to be a celebration of love for both parties involved. Where's the equitability? Heheheh,..
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:p lol:D ... well lets just hope that this year Mrs Tomassi is in a better mood:D


Laterz...
 
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what i usually do is go out for a meal, get a bottle of wine/champagne, go back to my place, get pissed and sh@g her brains out!

that's what i did for the last few valentines days!
 
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An idea...

Originally posted by stevey_2000
what i usually do is go out for a meal, get a bottle of wine/champagne, go back to my place, get pissed and sh@g her brains out!

that's what i did for the last few valentines days!
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It works, yes, but it gets boring doing the same thing year after year... why not try make a change? maybe do something else besides for going out for a meal etc? As much as the both of you enjoy the meal, house, sh@g thing, a change wont hurt;)


Laterz...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by stevey_2000
what i usually do is go out for a meal, get a bottle of wine/champagne, go back to my place, get pissed and sh@g her brains out!

that's what i did for the last few valentines days!
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Sounds like a good idea but i might leave it this year. :)
 
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