"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Valentines Day

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Rollo Tomassi

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Valentines Day 2004:

After a day at work Rollo confidently strides up to the front door of the home HE owns and fiddles for the key in his jacket pocket only to have Mrs. Tomassi open the door for him in little more than a sheer pink neglige, hip high stockings and holding two dry martinins. "Our daughter is with grandma for the evening, happy Valentines Day!" she says as she closes the door behind him.

Later that evening after the mind-bending sex, Rollo says, "That was great, now how about I take you out for an expensive meal now." "If you want to,.." is Mrs. Tomassi's reply.

Valentines Day 2005: ?


You know, Valentines Day is supposed to be a celebration of love for both parties involved. Where's the equitability? Heheheh,..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Valentines Day? What's that? I prefer Talk Like A Pirate Day.
 
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lol...

Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
Valentines Day 2004:

After a day at work Rollo confidently strides up to the front door of the home HE owns and fiddles for the key in his jacket pocket only to have Mrs. Tomassi open the door for him in little more than a sheer pink neglige, hip high stockings and holding two dry martinins. "Our daughter is with grandma for the evening, happy Valentines Day!" she says as she closes the door behind him.

Later that evening after the mind-bending sex, Rollo says, "That was great, now how about I take you out for an expensive meal now." "If you want to,.." is Mrs. Tomassi's reply.

Valentines Day 2005: ?


You know, Valentines Day is supposed to be a celebration of love for both parties involved. Where's the equitability? Heheheh,..
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:p lol:D ... well lets just hope that this year Mrs Tomassi is in a better mood:D


Laterz...
 
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what i usually do is go out for a meal, get a bottle of wine/champagne, go back to my place, get pissed and sh@g her brains out!

that's what i did for the last few valentines days!
 
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An idea...

Originally posted by stevey_2000
what i usually do is go out for a meal, get a bottle of wine/champagne, go back to my place, get pissed and sh@g her brains out!

that's what i did for the last few valentines days!
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It works, yes, but it gets boring doing the same thing year after year... why not try make a change? maybe do something else besides for going out for a meal etc? As much as the both of you enjoy the meal, house, sh@g thing, a change wont hurt;)


Laterz...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by stevey_2000
what i usually do is go out for a meal, get a bottle of wine/champagne, go back to my place, get pissed and sh@g her brains out!

that's what i did for the last few valentines days!
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Sounds like a good idea but i might leave it this year. :)
 
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